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What a fabulous treat we have in store today with WWW readers Amy and Nathan’s warm, sparkling and glamour filled barn wedding. Our pair wed on the 20th July 2017 at Donington Park Farm House. Together with her wonderful florist, Amy created such a magical atmosphere with fairy lights, moss and the most glorious florals you ever did see.
There are just so many wonderful details to take in here, from the floral hoops and the bell jar roses, to the moss runner and the heaving cake table. Pinterest fingers at the ready! One of my favourite touches is the mossy table plan board and Amy was a woman with a plan, making sure all the nooks and crannies of the venue were filled with gorgeous details.
Amy’s Sottero and Midgley gown fits in with the glamorous décor just perfectly and I think you’ll agree the chaps all look rather dapper in their Marc Darcy suits. I do so love Chi Chi London’s bold bridesmaids dresses and don’t the youngest bridesmaids look just gorgeous in their Monsoon numbers?
Thanks ever so much to Gareth Newstead for capturing the incredible atmosphere so beautifully and sharing these images with us.
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THE PROPOSAL | Nathan proposed after 4 years together while holidaying in Barcelona in beautiful Park Guel. I was actually in a bad mood at the time after being forced to walk up the hill in 36 degree heat but I soon cheered up! No one knew what was happening apart from us, it was really special.
THE VISION | I wanted the wedding to be super relaxed and have a party vibe. My dream was for it to be a day to remember for everybody and to only have our closest family and friends there. I wanted the day to be full of personal touches and to reflect our personalities – nothing too ‘flash’! I wanted the décor to be rustic yet romantic with quirky touches. I’m all about food so this was a big deal breaker in the wedding, I didn’t want a sit down meal as mass catering for three courses is often disappointing but with Donington Park Farmhouse there was an option for a barbecue as the main course, which was right up our street and went with the informal atmosphere we wanted to create.
THE PLANNING PROCESS | Naturally I had a wedding pinterest board two years prior to Nathan popping the question. So I already had a good idea of what I wanted! Unfortunately a month after booking the venue my Mum passed away so planning went onto the back burner for a few months. I originally wanted to do absolutely everything myself but I didn’t have the energy for a while so my amazing florist and venue dresser helped ☺. After Christmas I managed to get myself into gear and spent hours browsing wedding blogs and mentally walking around the venue thinking of bits and pieces to go in all the nooks and crannies! Along with creating x 10,000 lists.
BUDGET | We managed to save a lot of money with the venue and suppliers due to the Wedding being on a Thursday, and with suppliers who weren’t offering mid-week discounts already I was a bit cheeky and requested bits for free. I’d definitely recommend a mid-week wedding if you’re booking the wedding late or would like to save money. You tend to find that you only get guests who want to be there coming to the day as well – which is quite heart-warming.
THE VENUE | It’s impossible not to be impressed by Donington Park Farmhouse. As soon as you walk into the barn, it’s got a really special atmosphere and is traditional yet has modern touches like the industrial lighting hanging from the ceilings, it really had the WOW factor. The rooms are adorned with twinkling fairy lights and rustic detail and even if you weren’t to decorate the venue for your wedding it wouldn’t look bare. It was the first venue we viewed and we booked it straight away, I strongly believe if you see something and love it then what else are you looking for? You could look forever always trying to find something that bit better. What I really liked about it was that you had the venue exclusively to you and your wedding guests, the accommodation of 17 rooms was spread across three different buildings so it felt like a little wedding village! We had the ceremony and evening party in the main barn and the Wedding Breakfast in the Pig Sties, each table was set it its own walled Pig Sty so it was really different. We also had a lovely separate bar with picnic tables and a courtyard to use which was fab as it was such a sunny day!
THE DRESS & ACCESSORIES | The dress was ‘Natalia’ by Sottero and Midgley from La Belle Boutique in Nottinghamshire. The shoes were Irregular Choice from Schuh.
FINDING THE DRESS | Hate to say it but I didn’t enjoy the ‘finding the dress’ experience! I hate being centre of attention, don’t like looking at myself in the mirror and I’m naturally not very enthusiastic.. all in all a disastrous combination – Being centre of attention all day and being stared at for a reaction by various staff members and my bridesmaids and sisters. I think the ‘Finding the Dress’ experience is often really romanticized and it doesn’t always work out like that, equally there isn’t anything wrong if you don’t feel like that! My brief was a long sleeved dress, nothing fitted and loose. I ended up with a fitted, corseted, strapless trumpet gown – which a member of staff asked me to try on and I loved it! I was a little bit conscious that I was too big to wear it but I found with the loose dresses I actually looked bigger and while I wanted sleeves to cover my arms it was actually highlighting them even more!
GROOM’S ATTIRE | The Grooms suits were all from the Marc Darcy website, they were navy blue tweed with a nude trim which matched the Bridesmaid dresses perfectly. The burgundy bow ties and socks were from eBay and complimented the rich colours in the flower bouquets. The Gingham shirts were from House of Fraser and went with the ‘Rustic Theme’. The brown brogues that the Groomsmen wore were from Moss Bros.
THE READINGS & MUSIC | I walked down the aisle to the rather original Christina Perri ‘A Thousand Years’ – I know everyone has this but I think it’s just beautiful. We then had a reading read by my sisters dedicated to my Mum, inspired by something I found on Pinterest but amended by my sisters – it finished with ‘and now we say our vows of love today in memory of you’ which was a really nice fitting touch. After the vows were made Nathan’s sister Sarah read out an excerpt from the childrens book ‘I like you’ by Sandol Stoddard. We signed the register to The Beach Boys – Gold Only Knows and Father John Misty – Chateau Lobby and walked back down the aisle to The Cure – Just Like Heaven.
BEAUTIFUL BRIDESMAIDS | I had my three best friends as my bridesmaids and I couldn’t have done it without them on the day and leading up to the wedding. They looked absolutely beautiful in Chi Chi London dresses with shoes and hair accessories from ASOS. One of my bridesmaids Sophie tore some ligaments in her knee a few months before the wedding so had to wear flats but I think it worked really well! So many people complimented the bridesmaid dresses on the day – so I felt really happy. The two flower girls were my nieces Lilly and Daisy, they are just so cute! They wore dresses from Monsoon and glitter shoes from Next.
THE FLOWERS | Where do I start with the amazing florist we used?? Laura at Avant Garden in Belper was absolutely amazing, she seemed to know what I wanted straight away without me having to explain. I found her on Instagram and loved the unusual way she put things together and all the ideas she had. The tables were decorated with real moss table runners with floral cloches and dahlia petals, a custom back drop behind the top table with copper foliage hoops and flower sprays. The table plan we had was an antique looking frame on an easel with real moss as the back drop, it was stunning. The bouquets were all stunning as were the floral garlands for the girls, we had compliments on them all day.
THE CAKE | The cake table was made by Louisa Bella’s Cake Company, which is actually my sister’s company so I got the full works! We had a three tier semi-naked red velvet cake with cheesecake buttercream and a gold tier centre, a sequin single tier carrot and orange cake with a handmade sugar magnolia, miniature pistachio, rose water and white chocolate drip cakes and blueberry cake pops with edible flowers and gold glitter, with handmade meringue kisses scattered around the table. Gorgeous!
YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER | Our photographer was Gareth Newstead. We actually viewed the venue after seeing one of his wedding blogs! After meeting him we loved his relaxed style, we were very nervous as we aren’t a couple that love a photo op’ but Gareth reassured us we wouldn’t have to do anything we didn’t want to do. He blended in so well with the wedding he felt like one of our friends which is why I think he managed to get so many natural shots of everyone. I laughed and cried looking through the photos for the first time, we said to him the most important part of the day was capturing the feel of the wedding and the relaxed atmosphere and he certainly did that in bucket loads.
THE DETAILS & DÉCOR | The venue was full of fairy lights but I had to add extra! I bought copper wire fairy lights from eBay and put them everywhere! On the tables in the bar I bought jars with fairy lights in to add a bit of atmosphere and dotted them around. We had hessian bows on all the chairs to go with the barn/rustic theme. A big highlight was the beer pong table we bought with a rule board for ‘Bride & Groom Beer Pong’ and blue cups for the grooms side and gold cups for the brides side – we even had personalised ping pong balls. My bridesmaid Michelle painted us some amazing signs to use on the day, the order of service was an old pallet painted black with white chalk pen as the writing. We hired a ladder from Avant Garden to do a little display for my Mum complete with photos and fairy lights with a hessian and lace runner – I had quite a few little photos displays about to add a personal touch. The favours were all different succulent plants, that I had wrapped in pieces of hessian and tied with a bit of string, they also served as place holders with a mini chalkboard pick with each guests names on – they went really well with the moss on the tables.
THE HONEYMOON | We went to Staithes in a harbourfront cottage for a Mini-Moon straight after the wedding and to Khao Lak in Thailand two weeks after the wedding staying in a beach front Bungalow, it was beautiful and we had the best time.
MEMORABLE MOMENTS | I think walking up the aisle was such a memorable moment for me, it’s something you dream of from being a little girl and I just couldn’t stop smiling. Another memorable things was all the dancing at the end, we created our own play list going through the ages 80’s / 90’s etc. and for the last hour we had ‘Amy Vs Nathan’ so a track I had chosen followed by a track Nathan had chosen and people had to cheer for which they liked the most, this really got the atmosphere going and was so funny! Paul Ace our wedding singer was there all day and is also worth a mention – he was absolutely brilliant – everyone loved him. There’s too many memorable moments to mention, the Mexican wave before dinner was served, the incredibly touching speech from my husband and the sing along to Paul Ace ‘That’s Amore’ after the meal – we couldn’t begin to list them!
ADVICE FOR OTHER COUPLES | Do what YOU want, they’ll be so many family members and friends who try and influence what you do along the way, and try and push outdated traditions on to you, or make you invite people just because you should. But at the end of the day you’re always going to upset someone so it isn’t worth worrying about, the most important thing is having a day that’s all about you both and having no regrets. Once you’ve achieved this – on the day take a moment and look round the room at all the people who matter to you having a wonderful day enjoying everything you have put together, it’s the best feeling knowing you trusted your instincts and everything is exactly the way you both wanted it!
CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE |
Photography | Gareth Newstead Photography
Venue | Donington Park Farmhouse
Florist and Props | Avant Garden Weddings
Dress | Sottero & Midgley from La Belle Boutique
Shoes | Irregular Choice
Make Up | Maxine Holland at Black Cactus Salon
Hair | Hair by Charlotte Leigh
Suits | Marc Darcy
Adult Bridesmaids | Chi Chi London
Young Bridesmaids | Monsoon
Singer | Paul Ace
Wedding Stationery | Rocket Monkey Design
Light up Letters | Distinct Event Solutions
What a marvellously warm and sparkly day! Thank you so much Amy and Nathan for sharing it with us. Rachel x
Who: Sally Adlen and James Miller
When: September 24, 2016
Where: Bakewell Methodist Church followed by a reception at Hassop Hall
Theme: I didn’t really have a set theme, but because Hassop Hall has a very distinctive style I decided to work with that look, rather than chose something completely different. Hassop is a stately home, which is grand and splendid, but it is also has quite a relaxed, country gentleman feel to it. So we decided to work with its grand fireplaces, traditional furnishings and plush country atmosphere to create a very English look. The groomsmen were in navy tails and the bridesmaids wore burgundy and gold.
I didn’t originally want to get married at Hassop because it is the place where I have celebrated lots of milestones in my life, for example I had my 18th and 21st birthday celebrations there. But when I saw Hassop’s ballroom I changed my mind because it was simply stunning.
Planning: My sister went to Avant Garden for her wedding so I had seen Laura and Scott’s work first hand. With that in mind, it was a no brainer – I always knew I would go to them. At my initial meeting I didn’t have loads of specific ideas, but I knew that I didn’t want anything tight and formal. I took quite a few photographs of things I liked and left it to Laura to put all the ideas together. One option Laura offers is the opportunity to have your bouquets made in advance of the big day, so you can see exactly what they are going to be like and make amendments if there are things you aren’t so keen on. This was absolutely invaluable to me. I had two bouquets made – mine and a bridesmaids – and an example of a buttonhole. I got to take them home and see what they looked like against my dress and the fabric for the bridesmaid’s dresses. It also set my mind at ease, since I knew that Laura had completely understood my vision. I was also able to make a few tweaks at this stage – for example there were dark red roses in my bouquet which I decided against.
Bouquets: My bouquet was absolutely beautiful. It was cascading, rather than a posy and it was full of dahlias which was one of the flowers I really wanted because my mum has always grown dahlias and I absolutely love them. I also had astilbees – which are also called false goat’s beard – and really added texture to the bouquet, as well as astrantia and ameranthus which are catkin-like long floral tassels which make quite a bold statement. Vebernam and lots of greenery completed the bouquet. The bridesmaid’s bouquets were similar but had more pops of orange and red in them. The overall look was quite autumnal, which is my favourite season too.
Buttonholes: I really wanted dark purple dahlias for the groom, best man, ushers and fathers, but they are very heavy flowers so Laura had to tie them quite carefully. She came up with lots of different options and I plumped for twine which looked great because James had a tweed waistcoat and it tied it with that English gentleman look. The mums had corsages in cream colours so that they matched whatever they wore.
Reception: I knew I wanted lots of greenery and Laura decorated the windowsills with ivy and edged the seating plan with it too. Laura and scott did all of the table centres at the reception – there were 12 in total. These were large gold bowls with flowers and greenery to match the bouquets. They were all lovely and loose; spilling out over the edges and on to the table. They then also provided small gold tealight holders and tealights to provide lots of extra sparkle.
Laura also did a ‘cake topper’ for our wedding cake. My mother-in-law made the wedding cake, which was gorgeous and simple, and Laura made up a little floral topper to finish it off.
Happy Ever After: We went to the Amalfi Coast and had a wonderful time. I was thrilled with everything on my wedding day, but flowers are very important to me and I was really thrilled that Laura understood my vision and lovingly brought it to life.
Who: Laura Heathcote and Ryan Ludlam
When: May 29th, 2016
Where: Shottle Hall, Belper
Theme: I wanted a very relaxed wedding day and I loved the idea of a garden party. I didn͛t want a particular colour theme, I just wanted the whole day to be bright and cheery and as colourful as
possible. I loved the idea of being outside and of everything being very natural and laid back.
Planning: This was a real Pinterest wedding – I had tonnes of pictures of all the things I wanted.
During my first meeting with Laura and Scott I ended up thinking that I would never be able to afford everything as my list went on and on. Luckily, I really felt they both understood exactly what I
wanted and from the outset I had complete faith that they both really ͚got͛ the look I was trying to create. Laura seemed genuinely excited too, which was really infectious. When I was waiting for the quote I thought it would be really expensive and I was already deciding in my head what I would have to trim off the list to save money. I was amazed when Laura emailed me and it wasn͛t as expensive as I was expecting. In fact, I was able to add some things so I was completely thrilled. The night before the wedding Laura put a post on Facebook with a picture of all these wonderful flowers. I messaged her to ask if they were mine and I was thrilled when she said that they were. Honestly, the next day I was more excited to see what she had created than I was about getting married!
I knew I wanted sunflowers because I love their cheerful bright shape and colour and
they make such a beautiful and happy addition to any big day. I have always thought that
sunflowers have personality and are bold enough to create a statement. They just give that feeling of happiness and fun – which was exactly how I wanted the day to be. I also asked for lots of
wildflowers – I didn͛t mind which ones as long as they were as bright as possible. My bouquet was so beautiful I nearly cried when I saw it – it was just what I had imagined. The bridesmaids carried
handtied arrangements of sunflowers and greenery which were stunning too. The groomsmen all had a sunflower buttonhole and the mums and my grandma had wildflower corsages.
I really wanted to get married outside and luckily the weather allowed for it – so we held our ceremony in Shottle Hall͛s outdoor pavilion. Laura had made me the most stunning
sunflower archway which I was thrilled with. And on either side of the pavilion she͛d made a display out of wooden crates with jam jars and bottles filled with wildflowers and a huge milk churn with a display similar to my bouquet. I also had little buckets dotted down the aisle which were filled with water and had sunflower heads and candles floating on the top. They were really pretty. I had to
walk through the marquee before going down the aisle and I was so distracted looking around the room at all the pretty tables I didn͛t have time to panic about the big moment!
We had a BBQ rather than a formal meal, but people were invited to eat in the
marquee and we still had a top table and speeches. I had hessian table runners which were tied with a little gerbera in the middle. And on each table I had tree trunk slices with lots of jars of different sizes filled with wildflowers. The seats had hessian and lace bows and I wanted them tied as roughly as possibly which apparently nearly killed Scott as he is such a perfectionist! On the top table we had a similar look along with milk churns for me and the bridesmaids to put our bouquets in.
decorated the whole venue for me, we had jam jars of flowers on the bar and she even put some flowers on the welsh dresser outside the toilets. We also had some jugs filled with really pretty flowers on the stone pillars in the main marquee, leading into the bar.
Evening do: We invited our evening guests quite early and so the night do kicked off at 6.30pm. We had bacon and sausage cobs, which I͛m told were delicious but neither of us got round to trying any! We hired an American-style mailbox for guests to put their wedding cards in and the staff at Shottle moved the milk churn and crates from the outdoor pavilion and created another display with those. I also really wanted an easel with a blackboard so we could write the order of the day on it. Laura didn͛t have one of those but she sourced one for us – which was amazing.
Happy ever after: Our honeymoon was wonderful, we had five days touring Sri Lanka and then
seven days in the Maldives. I felt a bit emotional about leaving all my flowers and the fact that our big day was over – it had been months in the planning and I didn͛t know what I was going to do with myself! I can͛t thank Laura and Scott enough for helping make my wedding dream a reality. They completely grasped my vision and brought it to life.
I͛d recommend them to anyone
A special thanks to Laura, Ryan and to Matt from https://fieldphotographic.com/